I've been curious about the same thing with my SO. After reading up on anal stimulation for a guy I've been all kinds of interested. I've wanted to do it probably more than he wants to try it, but that is only because I want to make him feel good any way I can. He is still pretty leary about it and I found out recently part of it has to do with some repressed fears. He used to be teased in school cause he hung out with girls just as much as guys despite the threat of "kooties". That progressed into name calling and homosexual jokes. Sadly I think this has made him fear that others, even myself, would think he is truely gay. However, we've talked about it some and there is hope yet for some anal action. As for right now I only lightly press against his pernum between his penis and his anus. Maybe we'll move on to fingers and such later, but I think this is going to all be done in baby steps for his sake.
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