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Originally Posted by inBOIL
No, No, No. If she does come calling she should be ignored. Remember, she asked Shauk to move out in the first place, just so she could have him on hand in case she wanted to get back together. If Shauk moves on and she asks him back, it'll probably just be a repeat of what has already happened.
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I only say that because he seems to be more than willing to over look the things that the rest of us would not tolerate in the least. I would just suggest being in a better situation before dealing with her at all.
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Originally Posted by match000
How is being the chaser the one who is in power? The chaser is the one who is powerless.. I mean, sure, the chaser has the ball in their court, but the one being chased has all the power to reject or accept.
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Because she gets to be the instigator then the one making the effort. When its brought to her Then all of the sudden it's not on her terms anymore and she has to consider what he wants as well as what she wants. She wants to be able to instigate and reach out when she wants to and not when she doesn't.