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Originally Posted by Hyacinthe
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The reasons these 'nice' guys are at home all alone is because they're not really nice guys.
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I know it's not what you meant, but this seems to imply that anyone who's at home all alone is not a nice guy.
Anyway, I don't get it sometimes guys who complain about not getting dates; I want to say congratulations welcome to life and you've just discovered the problem every male member of our species throughout time has also encountered, that is finding women. (Get it male "member", finding women?)
Maybe it has to do with an image issue. I suppose in some way we all have an image of who we think we are, or better put who we wish we were. It is probably this persona we believe we're portraying, when reality could be much harsher. So when one is in essence rejected they're faced with the choice of coming to terms with who they are vs. who they wish to be or just assuming there is some other unfair force at work which does not allow people to see their true self. I think when one comes to terms with who they really are, this issue of dating becomes a moot point since it is no longer about validating your ego. At least this has been true for me.