Originally Posted by Ustwo

You know, you only joined yesterday, and the internet is very shemale oriented but I do think you are in fact a real female because thats real female advice in this and its wrong. I've found most girls (note I said girls not women) don't take their own thoughts on these matters to heart. Ask a girl whats important in a guy and few would say he should be 'Strong and aloof, seeming to be able to take or leave me at a whim, someone who I feel the need to impress and doesn't try to impress me', yet thats what so many seem to be looking for.

The real nice guy who lets you have your space, and you know wants to be with you pretty much doesn't have a chance unless his physically gorgeous and even then it won't be a sure thing.