After reading only what the OP posted I have a bet.
I'll bet just about anything that if you move out, get your own place/life that she will come calling. She likes chasing, likes being the one in power.
If I were you, I would do just that. Move out, move on and if she does come calling cross that bridge when you come to it. The bonus is, by then you will probably have some friends and money and a new life in Seattle. Then you can deal with it on equal terms.
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