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Originally Posted by Shaindra
Here's a thought: apologize for being an ass. She knows you were being an ass, you know you were being an ass, the flowers were nice, but an apology is a better step. Next step, state your intentions about her clearly. Tell her that you like her, but you respect that these things take time. Then back off and give her some space.
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You know, you only joined yesterday, and the internet is very shemale oriented but I do think you are in fact a real female because thats real female advice in this and its wrong. I've found most girls (note I said girls not women) don't take their own thoughts on these matters to heart. Ask a girl whats important in a guy and few would say he should be 'Strong and aloof, seeming to be able to take or leave me at a whim, someone who I feel the need to impress and doesn't try to impress me', yet thats what so many seem to be looking for.
The real nice guy who lets you have your space, and you know wants to be with you pretty much doesn't have a chance unless his physically gorgeous and even then it won't be a sure thing.