Tilted Cat Head
Administrator
Location: Manhattan, NY
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I never tried to boost your ego and I'm not about to now. There are plenty of others that have stated it, you don't need yet another one.
You are only an embarassment to yourself if you continue to allow this to happen to yourself. Only you need to be able to look yourself in the mirror in order to sleep at night. As you've always told me you'll do it your way.
I'm telling you now, that you won't or don't want to change it until the pain is too great, that's your choice.
I heard a great analogy this morning, it's like being in a burning building knowing that you need to get out, but yet you don't want to because being outside in the unknown of the world is even more scary than knowing the certainty of your situation. Get out of the burning building already.
You wanted to change your life, you're in mid-change still hanging onto the vestiges of your old life that is doing nothing but inhibiting your growth. You've know it for some time now.
Again, you'll do whatever you please. Be scared. Be afraid. Be angry. Be upset. Be lonely. Be sad. Be you. They are all feelings that you will have to endure and you'll live through them. It's the range of emotions that we experience in life to really know that we are alive. What is happiness without knowing sadness?
But whatever you do, please change your behavior. Get the balls, man up, rock up, or whatever you want to call it.
Don't be Kpax 2.0
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