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The more you both think about it, the less likely it is to happen, in my experience. A lot of girls (certainly all the ones I've been with) have needed a rather specific set of both mental and physical "preconditions" to be met before actually orgasming is really possible. Try different things to see what makes her excited. Try talking dirty, music, candles, try anal or oral, watch porn. I was QUITE surprised by the kinds of things that make it possible for my fiancee to really get over the edge, but it's made things more fun for both of us to find out.
As GG , jenna and abaya said, it's not going to happen all the time, and it doesn't, but be creative, willing to experiment and open with each other and you'll find something that works.
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