You need to deal with the mind , in my opinion. The physical ability is there...thus it cums down to her. Talk, explore, and listen very carefully to what she wants...above all, don't begin to stress about it or you have defeated the purpose. Allow her to relax (whatever it takes), then slowly begin to please her in her favorite ways, penetration is secondary to mood with most women.
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