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Reading that nearly made me sick... it is unbelievable how much disrespect some people can have for themselves and others. Her actions are in no way justifiable, whether she's committed to anyone or not, because she is just flat-out disrespecting everyone involved.
That being said... honestly, you're not in that bad of a spot. You're at a very significant fork in the road, one much like in the movies where you look down one fork and see grass and animals and sunlight and life, and then you look down the other and see darkness, dead trees, fog, and doom... I'll let you take a wild guess at which fork represents her.
Basically, you're in a position now to move on an make a new life in Seattle, which is a very exciting prospect. Or, you could continue to try and win this girl over, forgive her for all she has done so far, try and patch up the trust issues, and then deal with all her future promiscuity and deceit, which may or may not result in a Maury Povich "I don't know who the father is" situation in the near future.
Sometimes it is tough to choose a path, even when we know which path is the right one. The important thing to remember is that you need to look forward and focus on your future... and not let your past control or limit you from getting where you want to go or from being who you want to be.
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"Tie yourself to your limitless potential, rather than your limiting past."
"Every man I meet is my superior in some way. In that, I learn of him."
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