hmmm...what a shit fest.  good luck 
mandy and 
healer.  y'all are certainly shooting through that to-do list of happily married couples...and i don't even think y'all have tied the knot yet, no?  quick work 
i don't understand 
il's perspective, or rather his way of communicating it in this thread, but then again we seem to seldom line up on methodoloy or message.  
congrats 
jstrider and 
gg: it's always good to see our southerners getting crazy.