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					Originally Posted by abaya
					
				 You need to say a little more in your post... etiquette is to give some background to your question, at least. | 
	
 Abaya is right.  Every relationship is different, and we need context if we're going to be able to offer any sort of answer.
Please give us some details.  If it's a question of someone else stumbling across those details, there are ways around that.  Just let me know.