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Kudos Mandy! I wish there were more people out there who were willing to actually talk with their SO about desires and fantasies. I love how someone commented that"...fantasies should remain just that..fantasies..." WOW. If that were true than when I was younger and had fantasies about having sex, I should have NEVER actually gone through with them!
I have been in MANY 3-somes and more-somes in my life, and have NEVER seen a single one of them fail because of the 3-some itself. I saw ONE fail, because we found out later that their marriage was already on the rocks, and they were hopeing to have this help out. But all the other relationships are doing just fine...I guess that "study" didn't involve any of US being asked. I never did like the idea of a "study" to figure out things that have such a diverse complexity. I can support a scientific experiment that has a controlled situation, but when you have an uncontrollable subject(i.e. human emotions and feelings) there can NEVER be a consistant outcome unless EVERY SINGLE HUMAN IN THE WORLD is a part of that study. I stand up and applaude you Many. I hope you and your SO have an enjoyable time, for as long as you two desire to do so!
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"It is not that I have failed, but that I have found 10,000 ways that it DOESN'T work!" --Thomas Edison
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