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You know, I thought this was a very informative and interesting thread right up until the point people starting taking IL's bait.
I'm surprised that people just couldn't have ignored it and moved on and to be honest I just don't think ridiculous and closed minded comments are worth peoples time and energy.
That's my $0.02 on that matter
As for something more specific to the OP. Although I'm quite young, I do agree that being older, and having had much more life experience with another person will allow a couple to be able to handle a threesome much better.
I have a friend who is in an open relationship, and has had many a threesome with her boyfriend. The reason they're able to make that relationship work is because they both know where they stand with eachother. They're perfectly honest and communicate their feelings and are both well aware of the risks involved. Oh, and what it's worth on the topic age they're both quite young too.
I think if you have the opportunity, and this is something you both want and you have clearly communicated all your thoughts, worries, fears, and theories on the topic before you try it out, the risk of things going horribly wrong will be much less. At least if you guys have really talked it out you'll be more prepared if something does go wrong.
Mandy, I wish yourself and Healer all the best with your future endeavors. Keep us posted yeah?
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