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Originally Posted by ngdawg
You're playing semantics, bent on the idea that, one way or another, something will get 'ruined'. And, unless you're misunderstanding yourself, you are insinuating that the venture into such an arrangement will end a relationship. That would be 'ruin' unless there's another meaning for that word that no one else is aware of. In some cases, that may be true; in others, it is not.
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*Shakes his head*
Ummm... No. If that's what I meant, what's what I would have said. I've never pulled my punches (So to speak) and I wouldn't start now. In a nutshell, if it's not typed out then I didn't say it. 'The best way' means just that-- 'The best way'. Any extra meaning you derive from that is on you.
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Infidelity and threesomes are not the same thing, but you're acting like they are(and to echo Abaya, why would you care anyway?).
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Nowhere did I say infidelity and threesomes are the same. First of all, 'and' is a conjuction and 'among' is a plural preposition (You know, that whole subject-verb agreement thing), indicating that I realize they're two seperate things all together (Now that's playing semantics
). Anyway, see my response to Abaya above.
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Originally Posted by ratbastid
No, you're consistently vocal about this sort of thing. And you consistently come from the same place of having ZERO personal first-hand knowledge, having no track record of relationship success (ex girlfriends of three years are still EX girlfriends), but with no qualms about preaching to others about what will and won't work for them.
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Wait... So what about the people chiming in on this thread who don't have any experience with the subject or any kind of present relationship? They get a free pass, right? This has to be, like, the third or fourth time I've asked this question and yet it gets ignored every single time. Oh well... Like I said, people are apt to ignore what they can't answer.
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You've got something personal about this issue, I_L.
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Nope. Nothing personal. Just trying to make ensure someone doesn't make a mistake and end up ruining their relationship
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Did your ex girlfriend want to do a threesome or something?
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Nope lol. And I woulda' said no if she asked >_>