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Originally Posted by Infinite_Loser
*Ahem*
I am being consistent.
Threesomes are the absolute best way to end a relationship means just that. Nowhere does that say "Will be ruined" or even insinuate as much. Check the statistics: Infidelity and threesomes are among the leading causes of failures in long-term relationships. One second...
*Runs off to find his 'Philosophy of Sex and Love' text book*
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You're playing semantics, bent on the idea that, one way or another, something will get 'ruined'. And, unless you're misunderstanding yourself, you are insinuating that the venture into such an arrangement will end a relationship. That would be 'ruin' unless there's another meaning for that word that no one else is aware of. In some cases, that may be true; in others, it is not.
Infidelity and threesomes are not the same thing, but you're acting like they are(and to echo Abaya, why would you care anyway?).
Anyway...
The most important thing is to know where each stands within a relationship. If the initial 'couple' is strong and not fantasizing about what might be and instead goes into it with open eyes and acceptance, why not? Whether it's for a night or life, as long as you're dealing with the realities openly, have fun! Life isn't a dress rehearsal. Do what you desire while you have the opportunity to do it.