Before this gets closed... Or at least too far off topic that the OP isn't getting advice as much as just getting to see people argue in yet another message board post...
I was going to post when this was first posted, but by the time i had time to do so, there were enough posts that the OP had a few viewpoints to chew on. When my wife and I were younger, we discussed a threesome. We were very young and it is likely best that at the time we did not go through with it as I don't think we could have avoided some problems. Now were we to discuss it I think we would do so differently and were it to not go well, we would say "oh well, that wasn't all we hoped for" and move on. So I agree that age and experience play a big part in this.
And seeing as times have changed and the Internet affords one an opportunity to see what others have experienced as far as things like this goes, a younger person certainly has resources to see if this is worth exploring any further.
I for one hope this thread can remain something useful to the OP and her SO without turning further into a pissing contest. Even as rough around the edges that I can be, I can see this thread going away from being useful to the OP if this continues.
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