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Originally Posted by Ustwo
Until you have matured with that 'love of your life' for a while I don't think such relationships are possible.
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Well, I haven't had a threesome, but I agree completely with what you (and Ratbastid, and some others) are saying here. Ktspktsp and I were discussing this thread last night and I was saying exactly the same thing... that while one or both of us might be very interested in the idea of a threesome, we're not touching that with a ten-foot pole until we've been together and built our foundation for a HELL of a lot longer than we already have. There is just no way I would risk what we have just to indulge a fantasy. But if we do *evolve* into that state of relationship (which is something we are both open to), where it's something that adds to what we have rather than testing it (as I feel it would be, as things are at this stage), then hey... we'll go for it. But I'm in no rush to get to that point, if it doesn't come naturally over time. We're still enjoying and exploring our current environs, which are mighty fine.