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[QUOTE=Ustwo]The problem was your husband didn't respect you nor was your marriage as strong as you thought.
You are right, but at the time, and the sequence of events as they played out, to me, it was unreal.
It totally made me rethink anyone's intentions, or the fact of taking someone at their word.
The amount of deceit involved was mind boggling.
To put the blame, if there is blame to be put, on my ex husband, would not be fair. It was me, who brought the whole subject of a threesome up, and his initial reaction, was one of distaste. But at my urging of the whole scene being something we could handle, he relented.
I realize this is a test, as you said, but to even put your entire life to a test such as this , doesn't seem sensible .
We are supposed to keep this positive, and in that vein, what happened to me in my situation, was most likely not to be misconstrued as the norm.
And as I said , it was one of the most satisfying intimate moments in my lifetime.
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