I am 27 and was 24 when I chose to have the operation. I was counseled, seen by a nurse to outlined the procedure and inquire my motive, then later by a male nurse who did the same and discussed the unlikelihood of reversal, then met the Dr who informed me I could call it off right till the moment. I had been thinking of it for two years previous and am so glad that I did it. I feel it is both socially ethical and sexually chivalrous by taking full responsibility for birth control (the woman's operation is much more severe and pills are bad for their health). There is about 1/3 chance of reconnecting. Young men are often curious and I am talkative. One could always adopt, the world could use more good parents, but we have a hard time loving the kids that are already here. Do they really need to be blood to do that ?
