Martian your first post was hilarious.
Tabby I used to be REALLY shy like you, let me guess when you go to make a move you get butterflies in your tummy, your lips start feeling dry and your palms start to sweat and all you can think is that he doesn't really want this.
Since then I have managed to get over it but it IS hard.
Few ideas for you:
1) Depending on the season you could try some phallic foods (sausages in winter and bananas or ice lollypop things in summer) lick and suck the tip like you would give head then when he looks over at you wink and deepthroat it (gagging here is not going to help so don't push it too far)
2) Arrange to sit down and watch a movie, sit in front of him on the floor bewteen his calves, start running your fingers/ nails/ hands along his legs, start down at his ankle and work them up under his pants. Easier if the guys is wearing wideleg pants or shorts.
3) (requires in the investment of massage / baby oil) Next time he gets home from work in a bad mood mention that he seems stressed and offer a massage to help him relax. Put a towel down on the bed, warm a bit of oil in your hands then start running them all over him, spill a bit of oil on his pants and mention he should take them off, I'm sure you can manage once you've got him in his underwear right?
4) Invest in some sexy underwear. Buy a new set, something that you know he would love to see on you and then put it on and ask whether he likes it, has any suggestions for the next time you go lingerie shopping, whether he likes the feel of the material (run your own fingers over the material when you ask that) then afterwards give him a big kiss and press up against him.
Hope these help a bit.
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