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I realize you don't want to facilitate cheating in any way, but once she offers, she is 110% guilty as can be. Whether you had sex with her or not makes 0 difference in terms violating the rules/trust of a monogamous relationship. I don't want to be with a girl who isn't screwing around on me just because she keeps getting turned down. I want to be with a girl who doesn't want to screw around on me. The responsibilty to not cheat is hers and only hers. In fact I'd go so far as to say had you had a one night stand with her, you should have found the guy and told him because in the long run you would be doing him a favor. He should thank you, not be pissed at you. In fact, if you ask any of my close friends they'll tell you I've alread told them if they get the chance to sleep with a my girlfriend, I don't care whether or not they do, so long as they tell me she offered. It isn't their responsiblity to make sure she's not a dirty cheater, it's hers.
PS- Whether alcohol was involved or not makes no difference, if she can't keep her pants on when she gets drunk, she already knows it and again - it's her responsibilty to make sure she doesn't get that drunk.
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