I applaud you for doing what you feel comfortable doing. Especially where sex is concerned, but in other areas as well, it is important not to deviate from where you feel comfortable, even though is can be terribly hard (OK, that pun was intended). For my part, I have been cheated on, and have cheated with someone, but never cheated ON my girlfriends. It is strange how perspective changes one's opinion of this subject. I could not live with myself if I cheated, as I would see it as weakness, and an act that could not be undone. Do people feel differently if the individuals are married, versus "just" in a relationship?
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"Religion is the one area of our discourse in which it is considered noble to pretend to be certain about things no human being could possibly be certain about"
--Sam Harris
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