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Originally Posted by JinnKai
RE: The alcohol; if she got herself that drunk, then she's still responsible for the drinking and she's responsible for any actions she herself makes while drunk.
This is a thin line, however. If she wanted to give some guy a blow job, then that's totally her action and her responsibility. If she had sex with someone else, then I'd probably agree with you. That's a shared responsibility, because the action is not entirely hers.
and EDIT: "P.S. NOT cheating is only looked down upon by douchebags who aren't getting any and have never had a real relationship."
I can't help notice the timeliness of this, and I wonder if it's directed at me. I "look down" on not cheating in that I think it's a bit silly to waste an opportunity attempting to avoid having someone else's actions hurt a third individual you're not acquainted with. And yet, I'm not a douchebag, I do get some, and I have a great relationship.
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As long as a blowjob involves two people, it's shared responsibility. Pumping your head up and down on a dick is the same as pumping your vag up and down on a dick.
EDIT: It wasn't directed at you Jinn. The OP stated that he had moral qualms with cheating because he was able to envision himself in the other guy's shoes. He'd have hurt the guy and the girl and ultimately himself. Three people.
But your idea of it being silly to waste an opportunity to exploit someone out of consideration for an unknown third party.... hm, isn't that what's driven the environmental crisis, the war, the poverty in underdeveloped countries, the pollution in industrializing countries struggling to make our plastic McDonalds toys....
Uh yeah, being considerate like that is commendable.