at the end of the day, it doesn't matter what anyone says to you. if cheating would have made you feel horrible, then you did the right thing. others may have said "you should have gone for it" but they either are talking a good game, they weren't there in your shoes, or they have a different moral/ethical code. either way, if you can wake up and look at yourself in the mirror, you win.
i may still regret the time i turned down my one and only chance for a threesome, but i didn't cheat, which would have stayed with me longer than anything...
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onward to mayhem!
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