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My number is relatively easy to remember because my boyfriend right now was my first. And since we have both been faithful to eachother, so the number remains the same.
I do have a friend that does take her "count" seriously because she claims that she has had too many for her age (i think her count is around the mid teens and she's 22). But in all honesty, she thought she was pursuing a real, long term relationship with each guy that did end up using her for sex.
One guy was such a bastard that didn't tell her that he was fooling around behind her back and gave her a sti (cured, but still).
Everyone makes poor judgements on people, but a count is arbitrary. I don't think a "slut-o-meter" is determined by the number of people you sleep with but rather, how does one use sex. If someone uses sex for reasons of power and manipulation, that's something completely different.
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