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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
My point has been that the guys who believe this theory are immature and are only going after immature women. And, I strongly suspect, the problem isn't that girls won't go out with them, it's that the girls they want to go out with won't go out with them. It is truly a self-fulfilling prophecy, but you want to blame it on all women. It's fucking ridiculous.
And, personally, I think if you believe something like the ladder theory you'll never get anywhere in a relationship because you'll continually throw the baby out with the bathwater with your closed-minded assumptions.
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I've yet to see anyone reason why the ladder theory is totally wrong. "Because it is!" doesn't constitute a valid argument. Whether or not you want to admit it, the theory has quite a basing in truth and just about any non-gay guy knows this. You see, it has nothing to do with a woman being 'immature', but rather it has everything with her being a woman. I'm fairly sure I could go searching through the "Ladies Lounge" for posts which completely validate the ladder theory. What would you think of that?