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Originally Posted by Daniel_
I pick the game (or my daughter does) to be fun for everyone playing.
She likes dominoes and pick up sticks (less reliance on book learning and sneakiness) but also enjoys monopoly and junior scrabble.
I monopoly she hardly ever wins, but she gets better and loves that she can sometimes do well.
This crap that is so common nowadays really bites me. If we never teach our kids about competition and failure (as an essential part of winning there has to be a loser) what happens the first time they have an appraisal at work? Does their boss say - "sorry Johnny, you're crap, but I'm giving you the same pay rise as Bert, otherwise it's not fair".
Is he hell.
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Exactly. It starts with letting them win at board games, bending the rules so it's easier. There is always a loser in life. The sooner kids learn that life isn't fair or easy, the better off they are.