Great post... well-applied and articulated observations.
I've had several gay and lesbian friends, and it's never occurred to me, growing up (either by myself or through societal/parental/religious conditioning), to think differently. People didn't seem to harp on the evils of homosexuality all that much when I was in religious education classes, from 1st through 12th grade. Or maybe they did on occasion but I zoned it out.
Machismo is hard to get around, and even harder to break a person of, it seems. Once that sort of macho culture has set in, it's exceedingly difficult to get the person to reverse it.
I just never got told to hate anyone, and I can't imagine wanting to hate an entire group of people for any reason, let alone for a reason that has no impact on me whatsoever. I meet people all the time who are like this, however, and it always boggles my mind to see a person blindly hating others.
|