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Originally Posted by Average_Joe
Perhaps, the statement about “feeling sorry for those who don’t share your level of togetherness and trust” felt too “elitist” to me. Does having a 3-some result in a feeling of higher trust and togetherness? From what I have gathered from multiple threads around the TFP – yes. Are there couples out there that also cultivate a high sense of trust and togetherness without having a 3-some? Again, yes. Perhaps these people don’t want it to be implied that their relationship is inferior.
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I haven't been there either, but I've read a bit about this topic in the past few years. There are lots of people who say that threesomes damaged their relationship. Of course, a lot of relationships are damaged despite the fact there never was a threesome. A popular view is that threesomes are only for couples who are very comfortable and secure with themselves & eachother. If there are any sexual insecurity or jealousy issues, adding third person can make these problems much worse.