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Shauk · 10-04-2007, 12:26 AM

yeah, which is why I'm not really expecting much for when i actually do move in.

as much as i'd like to believe that this is what she wants, seems like she's had the opportunity to make something of it several times before now.

She seems to be into the relationship with me as long as i'm not actually there. *shrug*

This will just remove the 300 mile gap between us though so it's one way to tackle this beast of an issue, thats for sure. Throw myself right into it and she'll have to deal with it head on. She'll either completely retract, or level out. I think she has a weird shy gene or something thats causing her to panic when she realizes I'm actually there, in person, looking her right in the eyes, talking to her. I guess that can be fairly intimidating. I have a presence about me I suppose.

I have my own best interests at heart though so don't worry about her being wishy washy about me moving over there. Even if things do go badly, I have my own contingency plan for that.

10-04-2007, 12:26 AM	#42 (permalink)
Shauk Confused Adult Location: Spokane, WA	yeah, which is why I'm not really expecting much for when i actually do move in. as much as i'd like to believe that this is what she wants, seems like she's had the opportunity to make something of it several times before now. She seems to be into the relationship with me as long as i'm not actually there. shrug This will just remove the 300 mile gap between us though so it's one way to tackle this beast of an issue, thats for sure. Throw myself right into it and she'll have to deal with it head on. She'll either completely retract, or level out. I think she has a weird shy gene or something thats causing her to panic when she realizes I'm actually there, in person, looking her right in the eyes, talking to her. I guess that can be fairly intimidating. I have a presence about me I suppose. I have my own best interests at heart though so don't worry about her being wishy washy about me moving over there. Even if things do go badly, I have my own contingency plan for that. Last edited by Shauk; 10-04-2007 at 12:29 AM..