To the anon poster, 
Rather than dumping your currant SO (which would make you a bastard), you simply would like her to become a better person. 
The best advice I can offer, is to find an expert on your situation. Look for a personal trainer that is willing to understand your fiancee's situation, and will coach the both of you.
Good luck man.
__________________
"I don't know that I ever wanted greatness, on its own. It seems rather like wanting to be an engineer, rather than wanting to design something - or wanting to be a writer, rather than wanting to write. It should be a by-product, not a thing in itself. Otherwise, it's just an ego trip."
Roger Zelazny
|