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Originally Posted by im2smrt4u
Not to be rude, especially because it sounds like you are doing well now, but why would you get back with a guy who left you because of your weight?
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Maybe because his leaving helped me get the motivation to do as well as I am doing now. Perhaps the situation was oversimplified... there was more than my weight going on. But I respect someone who doesn't stick with someone who's goals don't gel. I've shifted my goals including and especially related to my health and so has he. I love the man. And sometimes that makes one forgive things that one normally wouldn't and realize that it was for the better at the time. It's hard to explain. But if we'd stuck together at that time and he hadn't said anything, I might not have had the impetus to force a drastic change.
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Originally Posted by Plan9
Just realize that you're armed with smart but heavily outnumbered.
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The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. Ayn Rand