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I lost 60 lbs over a year, and 45lbs of that in 3 months. This was 5 years ago - since then I've gotten in shape and very well toned. Losing weight is not a hard thing to do, and it soon becomes self-motivating. Obesity brings with it many health issues as years pass & old age approaches - an obese S/O would most definitely be a serious detriment to a good married lifestyle. When the obese person gets to the point of having difficulty getting around cause their knees and back hurt and they're always out of breath, and is always depressed, and you never have sex, never go for walks or do anything active.. life is gonna suck.

The OP already realizes his fiancee's obesity is a major issue, and she is unwilling to take any steps to lose weight. It's only going to get worse. End it now instead of a divorce or hellish life ten years from now.

edit: Up until earlier this year, I had only dated fat/chubby chicks. However, my current girlfriend is toned and sexy. I can say that THERE IS NO COMPARISON - once you experience the wonders of a toned female body, you will never want to see a fat chick naked again!