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My understanding is that it really fucks with a woman's head if she's taught as a girl to value herself only according to her appearance & sexuality. When men go after her but it becomes apparent that they don't care about her thoughts and feelings (or do only the the extent that get's them laid) it only confirms this negative lesson.
Very few men experience more sexual advances than they have time to persue, so most men can't relate to this. As for the men who do have more sexual opportunities than time to persue them, their attractiveness is usually based on something other than looks. They are athletes, rock stars and/or very wealthy. Imagine if your value to others was based soley on your full head of hair, a reliable erection and not having wrinkes. You'd be afraid of growing old too.
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