Originally Posted by ngdawg

And if he was gone tomorrow?
It shouldn't be 'help', it should be a result. Yes, people who love us make us feel valued(it's the nature of humans to desire being a part of something) , but ultimately, it is the value we place on ourselves that will matter and carry us through and ultimately, bring love into our lives. Sometimes we need someone to help us see this-but we should never only see ourselves through another's eyes.
"I am of value not because he says so, but because I am worthy of being valuable to others."
I hope you find that. Really.