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Hyacinthe · 09-28-2007, 07:28 PM

Not necessarily in order of importance and I stole a few from others

1) A sense of responsibility.If you decide to spend all your money for the month on a car, audio equipment, computer parts do not expect me to pay for your rent, electrical bills, debts. You made the mistake of doing that not me, unless we're living together and it was a joint decision.

2) Respect my friends. Understand that the people I call friend have earned that. Understand that I will drop what I am doing to help a friend, just as they understand that I will drop what I am doing if you need me.

3)Be supportive. There is a difference between being supportive and trying to fix things for me. I do not want you to solve my problems. If I ask for advice, then tell me what you think I need to do. If I do not ask you, then just offer encouragement.

(I know I stole those ones from LiBan but I could not have put them better)

4) Adventurous both in bed and out. I love to try new things from sexual positions to food to ways to spend the weekend. I want someone that I can share these experiences with. Especially since I want to travel after I finish uni / college.

5) Agree to disagree. Sometimes there's just no right answer to an argument, at these times I'm not going to cave into your opinion. As I've stated in other threads I hate being shouted at and trying to bully me just gets my back up and makes me more stubborn. So I need someone that can just agree to disagree and accept that my views are not going to magically change.

6) Good communication. I can't read minds and no I don't know what I did to piss you off, nor do I believe in the "you should know why I am upset" theory. If I knew I would not be asking. So I want a partner that can be honest about things like that and hold a decent conversation with me.

7) Shared household chores. You've been at work and had a hard day? Well guess what so have I. I don't object to doing stuff around the house I even quite liking cooking and ironing. This does not mean I am going to spend my days off constantly doing housework while you sit on the back couch with a beer.

8) Humour. I have a quirky sense of humour and I know it, I want someone that can appreciate the same things.

9) Ambition. This isn't just about work or money for me, I want someone that is willing to put in a bit of extra time or money to get what they want from life.

10) Someone who wants me and my presence. Not needs me for his very existance.

I love my independence. I crave it. I require other people to crave their independence, too. It freaks my SO out when I don't mind if he stays with his guy friends after a night of hanging out drinking, playing video games, etc. As long as he's not driving, I'm fine. I don't NEED him 24/7. Finding a man that respects that and appreciates it makes me happy.

(stealing one from fredweena as well cause it's sure as heck true)

09-28-2007, 07:28 PM	#7 (permalink)
Hyacinthe Psycho Location: Australia	Not necessarily in order of importance and I stole a few from others 1) A sense of responsibility.If you decide to spend all your money for the month on a car, audio equipment, computer parts do not expect me to pay for your rent, electrical bills, debts. You made the mistake of doing that not me, unless we're living together and it was a joint decision. 2) Respect my friends. Understand that the people I call friend have earned that. Understand that I will drop what I am doing to help a friend, just as they understand that I will drop what I am doing if you need me. 3)Be supportive. There is a difference between being supportive and trying to fix things for me. I do not want you to solve my problems. If I ask for advice, then tell me what you think I need to do. If I do not ask you, then just offer encouragement. (I know I stole those ones from LiBan but I could not have put them better) 4) Adventurous both in bed and out. I love to try new things from sexual positions to food to ways to spend the weekend. I want someone that I can share these experiences with. Especially since I want to travel after I finish uni / college. 5) Agree to disagree. Sometimes there's just no right answer to an argument, at these times I'm not going to cave into your opinion. As I've stated in other threads I hate being shouted at and trying to bully me just gets my back up and makes me more stubborn. So I need someone that can just agree to disagree and accept that my views are not going to magically change. 6) Good communication. I can't read minds and no I don't know what I did to piss you off, nor do I believe in the "you should know why I am upset" theory. If I knew I would not be asking. So I want a partner that can be honest about things like that and hold a decent conversation with me. 7) Shared household chores. You've been at work and had a hard day? Well guess what so have I. I don't object to doing stuff around the house I even quite liking cooking and ironing. This does not mean I am going to spend my days off constantly doing housework while you sit on the back couch with a beer. 8) Humour. I have a quirky sense of humour and I know it, I want someone that can appreciate the same things. 9) Ambition. This isn't just about work or money for me, I want someone that is willing to put in a bit of extra time or money to get what they want from life. 10) Someone who wants me and my presence. Not needs me for his very existance. I love my independence. I crave it. I require other people to crave their independence, too. It freaks my SO out when I don't mind if he stays with his guy friends after a night of hanging out drinking, playing video games, etc. As long as he's not driving, I'm fine. I don't NEED him 24/7. Finding a man that respects that and appreciates it makes me happy. (stealing one from fredweena as well cause it's sure as heck true) __________________ "I want to be remembered as the girl who always smiles even when her heart is broken... and the one that could brighten up your day even if she couldnt brighten her own" "Her emotions were clear waters. You could see the scarring and pockmarks at the bottom of the pool, but it was just a part of her landscape – the consequences of others’ actions in which she claimed no part."