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Originally Posted by xxxafterglow
Hey Secret,
Women and men are different. It's not that we're more "special" or "mysterious" but we DO think differently and have different needs. That's the point of this thread.
By the way, I flush my used tampons and wrap my pads so you don't have to see a bloody menstrual mess all over the bathroom or in the trash. I appreciate it when you put the seat down because I don't want to look at the urine-splashed rim as I'm about to take a seat. It's not some grand battle-of-the-sexes thing. It's courtesy, man!
If you want a productive (hetero) relationship, you learn what makes your partner tick - including the nuances of the female sex (err... like the fact that we sit to pee - do you like to sit on a urine-y toilet when you take a monster shit?).
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Yes, they think differently, but it's not as huge of a difference as society likes to make out. Also, it's more of a gender issue (masculine vs. feminine) as opposed to a sex issue (male vs. female). And yes, it's important to learn "what makes your partner tick." I'd think not making blind assumptions based on their sex would be part of that. Not all men are inconsiderate slobs, and not all women are dainty and more "in tune," or introspective as you put it earlier. That's the main issue I take with this thread. There is no special skill required to communicate with women, you just communicate with them period.