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Originally Posted by jennaboo4u
There's a definite difference for me when looking for a guy.
If I'm looking for a guy who I want to become serious with...
- I need someone who is on the same page of control issues as me. Well, I'm ultra jealous and if my guy can't handle it, the relationship will fall apart.
- I want a guy who makes me feel good about myself because I have a terrible self esteem.
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This is just sad.
While I wouldn't advocate finding someone to make you feel shitty, how you feel about yourself
must come from within. It's something to be discovered and when done so, embraced.
We are born alone, we die alone. We are all we have beginning to end and the only person we HAVE to live with that whole time....is ourself.
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Originally Posted by jennaboo4u
- Great communicator, thus great sex.
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Not really...that's why pick-up artists are called "pick-up artists". I know some who need to just STFU and do what they do best. I also know people I could talk to for hours but really doubt they'd be great in bed. Once or twice, that was proven the case.
Bottom line, guys: Respect and acceptance. Looks change, although initially, we all want the eyes to have a treat; but what is one woman's eye candy is another's nightmare.