There's a definite difference for me when looking for a guy.
If I'm looking for a guy who I want to become serious with...
- I need someone who is on the same page of control issues as me. Well, I'm ultra jealous and if my guy can't handle it, the relationship will fall apart.
-I like a guy who is goal oriented and at least planning on being realistically successful.
- I want a guy who makes me feel good about myself because I have a terrible self esteem.
- I want a guy who likes the same music that I do
- I want a guy that isn't too heavy into partying
- Great communicator, thus great sex.
- A guy who wants to have a family in the future.
- A guy who is caring and can be my best friend
If I'm looking for a fling I tend to go for "bad boys." Guys who end up being total fucking assholes.
Overall though, a guy has to be tall and not skinny. I mean, I'm not saying that I like guys who are "fat," but my boyfriend is 6'5 and was a football player, he's not a little guy.
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