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I'll bite....
In NO particular order... just stream of consciousness.
1. Respectful. Of differing opinions, independence, desires, needs and my drive to be alone sometimes.
2. Intelligent. Interested in a lot of things, open to new ideas, knowledgeable.
3. Able to communicate. Everything from what to do for dinner through "Hey, this is bothering me..."
4. Humorous. You just gotta be able to laugh with and at me. And make me laugh.
5. Ambitious. Not accepting of just exisiting, but wanting more.
6. Non-macho/non-misogynistic. I hate the "Lesser Gender", "Weaker Sex" shit.
7. Supportive and accepting of non-suffocating levels of support from others.
8. Financially stable. Having me around is an asset, not a requirement for your finanicial success.
9. Loyal. Don't cheat. If you don't want to be with me, go. If you want to be with someone else, go. Don't cheat. Just go.
10. Someone who wants me and my presence. Not needs me for his very existance.
I love my independence. I crave it. I require other people to crave their independence, too. It freaks my SO out when I don't mind if he stays with his guy friends after a night of hanging out drinking, playing video games, etc. As long as he's not driving, I'm fine. I don't NEED him 24/7. Finding a man that respects that and appreciates it makes me happy.
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Here's how life works: you either get to ask for an apology or you get to shoot people. Not both. House
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Originally Posted by Plan9
Just realize that you're armed with smart but heavily outnumbered.
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The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. Ayn Rand
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