I never realized that this was an anonymous post...
really, obesity is a disease...a curable one at that. my step-father died at the ripe old age of 50 due to obesity related conditions....
just like I couldnt marry someone who was a smoker, I couldnt marry someone who would let themselves degenerate like that.
she needs to get help, and understand that obesity is more than just an appearance related disease...and take care of her problems.
she needs a serious lifestyle change...who knows, maybe you telling her that she's obese, and you dont want to be with a woman who wont be able to see her kids grow up...and that you're leaving her... is enough to light the fire under her ass that she needs.
all the best wishes in whatever choice you make.
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