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I'm torn here between the morality of accepting someone for who they are and the fact that fat women turn me off big time. Perhaps a page from my experience with my wife, who smoked when I met her.
I told her that I didn't mind that she smoked, her choice, I just didn't go out with women that smoked, my choice. Try the same, it allows you both the autonomy of making your own choices.
Interestingly,
She quit smoking, we married a year later, 5 years later divorced, 1 week later she started smoking again. Stupid!
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