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Well it sounds to me like she's not just fat, she's obese? Am I correct?
For this, I'd say she's putting herself at a lot of health risks, so I would hope that your concern would not ONLY be because you don't physically find her attractive anymore, but that you hope she gets thinner for her own health.
I guess I can't say if you're a bastard or not. I've gained probably 10 lbs since my boyfriend and I have started dating, but I'm not obese. I know that my boyfriend is never shy on compliments and he always makes me feel good.
Thus, this makes me feel like you're being a bastard. However, like I said, I don't know if you are or not. I don't know, if my guy lost a ton of weight I guess I'd be inclined to do so as well.
Yeah, that wasn't very helpful.
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