Discuss this with her. Show her the post if you'd like; I think it would be helpful. My guess is that she doesn't understand the depths of your feelings on the subject.
If nothing changes, you need to decide if this is what you want for the rest of your life and be ready to act on that decision one way or the other. That could mean leaving and starting fresh.
As with anything else, I'll bet the issues go much deeper than what you've posted. I'll also be that you may not be aware of them all. It's time to find out.
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