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I don't think you're a complete bastard. It's natural to want to be with someone that is attractive and takes care of himself/herself. Not only is being a healthy weight more attractive, but it also makes a person healthier which in turn would give you more time together...if that's what you want.
A lifestyle change does need to be made. But I would heed caution to the marriage change being a positive one. Many women gain weight after marriage. That's when I gained over 30 pounds. I've lost it now and am back down to the weight I was 6 years ago, but it took time. But the majority of my friends put on many pounds after getting married and still haven't lost it.
First lesson in relationships: You can't change the other person...never will. Either accept it or not. To quote a song lyric I heard yesterday: Sometimes the toughest choice is also the right choice.
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Whatever did happen to your soul?
I heard you sold it
Choose Heaven for the weather and Hell for the company
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