The problem with radical honesty is that it doesn't do shit for the person.
You're ugly.
You're fat.
You're XY.
What's it do for them? Nothing, except feel worse about something they probably feel bad about already.
"Brutal honesty" should only happen when you're offering constructive criticism - where you're actually giving them a suggestion on how to CHANGE said offensive condition. Otherwise, you're just being a smug asshole calling people names.
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"I'm typing on a computer of science, which is being sent by science wires to a little science server where you can access it. I'm not typing on a computer of philosophy or religion or whatever other thing you think can be used to understand the universe because they're a poor substitute in the role of understanding the universe which exists independent from ourselves." - Willravel
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