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my dealbreakers:
inability to express emotions and communicate effectively
swearing at me
shouting at me
ignoring or turning their back on me regularly
inappropriately making fun of me
blatant selfishness
man-handling or any form of violence
obssession with sports
total lack of ambition
excessively disciplined and rigorous
anyone who thinks I'm their maid or mother
constant criticism and negativity
excessively superficial and always worried about opinions of peers
lack of imagination
unsupportive of who I am
is highly religious and insists on raising kids that way also
anyone who thinks cheating is ok and sometimes justified
a smoker
a guy who refuses to dance with me, ever
I'm sure there's more but I don't want to scare you. I'm pretty demanding heh
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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