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I'll echo willravel here
Shouting - I can handle alot of things but shouting of any kind freaks me out completely - I freeze up, my mouth goes dry, my palms start to sweat - classic flight or fight response and all this because someone raised their voice to me. Someone yelling at me just makes me shut down mentally and emotionally, that is not something I can handle in my life.
Cheating - you get drunk and kiss a girl/guy sure I can forgive that but if I found out any guy I had been seeing had been having another relationship behind my back that's it. Don't write, call or talk to me, you're out of my life I want nothing to do with you and wouldn't spit on you if I walked past you in the street if you were on fire.
Jealousy - I have friends the majority of who are male and I have held with one simple rule since my first relationship. Anyone that tries to make me choose between my partner and my friend (whether it be either of those two) obviously doesn't care about me enough to consider my feelings and that is the relationship that would end.
Contempt / Patronisation - I am a full grown adult, I can make my own decisions. I do not need you to answer questions for me, pick my meal at a restaraunt, make decisions about my life. Doing any of the above without first clearing it with me (if I can't read the menu for example) to me shows a lack of respect. Being older then me is so not an excuse for this behaviour.
Hmmm I guess I am pickier then I thought lol
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"Her emotions were clear waters. You could see the scarring and pockmarks at the bottom of the pool, but it was just a part of her landscape – the consequences of others’ actions in which she claimed no part."
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