I haven't been there myself, but a freind told me about his experience of coming home and finding his wife in flagrante delecto with another woman. He said, "You know, you always fantasize about how erotic and exciting it would be, to watch two women together. But it just hit me in the gut, like a crushing blow." They divorced. He couldn't deal with it.
Of course, it was a surprise to him. He didn't know his wife had desires for a woman. I think, if you're honest in sharing your erotic imagination and desire to try a women experience, and don't excluse him, your man should be OK with it. But try to remember that he's going from all of you, to a large part of you. Which means he's loosing some of you, of your love and attention, and it could hurt. Unless, of course, he gets a large part of someone else in the bargain.
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